If you’ve ever felt too sensitive, too soulful, too different - maybe it’s not you. Maybe you were just never meant to thrive in the system that taught you to hide those parts.

This part of my story isn’t about solving anything. It’s about honouring the weight we carry when we can’t not see the pain around us.

This reflection is part of a larger journey exploring the meaning of life through the lens of emotional divergence, spiritual grief, and the power of intuitive insight.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone sees something entirely different from you, even though you're both looking at the same thing?

What if there was a simple shift we could make to approach life and relationships with more ease, grace, and understanding?

How do we stay rooted in our own energy, while detaching from others’ expectations?

Understand how to balance empathy with boundaries to thrive in high-impact roles.

Our openness to others’ energy can sometimes lead to a subtle but real issue—emotional burnout.

We live in a time where change is happening at lightning speed. It feels like, almost daily, we are asked to adapt to something new—whether in our careers, relationships, or personal goals.

I remember the first time I stepped into the entrepreneurial world. I worked with a life coach who would often tell me, “You’re speaking from your head, not your heart.”

For many of us who are empaths or intuitives, our natural response to stressful situations can be deeply emotional. But what if, instead of reacting with frustration or anger, we asked ourselves:

What if, instead of letting those moments control us, we learned to respond differently?

Running a business is challenging enough, but when you’re an empath, those challenges can feel amplified.

One of the most pervasive struggles of empaths is the tendency to people-please—constantly putting others’ needs before your own.

When you know your Clair Sense Type, you can begin to focus on fine-tuning the receptors that are less developed, bringing more clarity and resonance to your life.

For many empaths, the challenge isn't only about confidence but also, the overwhelming energy they pick up from others. But what if you could turn this challenge into your greatest strength?

What if dreams were a gateway to your deepest wisdom, a bridge to your highest self, and a key to unlocking the potential for quantum healing in your life?

Imagine, for a moment, that the walls we’ve built are not made of impenetrable brick but are instead malleable structures.

Avoiding judgment is like trying to avoid breathing. It’s everywhere, and it’s a part of life. So, instead of crossing roads, let’s talk about climbing mountains.

Have you ever considered that saying ‘no’ could be the most empowering word in your vocabulary?

we too have the innate potential to grow and transform continuously, no matter our age or stage in life.

There’s a profound truth in the realisation that there’s only one of you.

Imagine, for a moment, that the walls we’ve built are not made of impenetrable brick but are instead malleable structures.

And I start to re-remember the decision that I would be willing to break my leg in order to stop drowning versus gulping down air and changing my mind. Anything to stop the pain.

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When we are feeling very down, it's important to remember that we can flow and navigate life’s curve balls, by digging down into our fears and raising up our adaptability.

I learned how to surrender complete responsibility for it happening at all, and to also take responsibility for how it was going to affect my life going forward.

They are right, they are old dogs that don’t WANT to improve themselves, their life, or the conversations with those around them.

How do you kick the ‘this is normal’ silent assassin

An automatic “I’m fine thanks” seems to be the norm. And equally the receiver’s default is “that’s good”. This is a calamity!

The beauty of quantum healing is, that it resolves every recurring occasion from that first time, forward through our entire lifetime.

Frequently, empaths have reported emotional, physical, and even mental struggles for most of their lives without realising why they are ‘feeling something out of sorts.

As I pondered on this frustrating but beautiful dilemma it occurred to me… how many of us as self-branded leaders, forget that the night we choose to radiate, shine, and ultimately bloom

If the words we use to describe a successful win aren't important, why do words for describing our personality matter? Because words have meaning attached to them.

Your inner spiritual power can heal circumstances in your life and our word in ways greater than you realise. By journeying within you will gain clarity and conscious redirection

Our happiness can't be altered unless we allow it to be. When we are truly happy within, it's a lot easier to stay in that state and to empathise with others without being knocked off course.

It wasn’t until I came back inside that I realised… a younger Mell would have been really afraid of doing that. In fact, when I reflect back, it’s taken me at least 4 years to settle my nerves

You are CHOOSING that something is more important and that the thing you WANT to do, isn't going to give you enough reward immediately so it's not a priority right now.

The nerve cells in your brain produce electrical signals forming distinctive arrangements called brainwave patterns. These have a direct impact on the state of your consciousness.

My opinion is that we can't be too sensitive, only too emotionally expressive when it's not done in a conscious manner.

How we see the world can have us redefine how we live. So where does all of this come from and how do we adjust the thoughts that aren't serving us?

The very idea of "can't" is a huge reason why many people, not just you, can't seem to finish the things they start or want to have in life.

Meditation is no longer the woo woo domain of yogis and hippies. Famous people get as much, if not more, from accessing their inner peace and wisdom.

“You really must give, in order to receive”. “You need to pay it forward”. Statements like these are constantly bandied around, but how do you give, without undervaluing your self-worth?

I was reminded that we don’t always get WHAT we want WHEN we want it, but if we consistently show up with a genuine desire to serve others and share our gifts, we will always be a winner.

How am I supposed to continue with everything else in life with this ‘thing’ hanging over my head like an Armageddon storm?

It’s a common misconception that willpower and ‘staying focused’ is the best strategy and for secret empaths. It can be harder than most as we tap into and feel the influence from outside sources.

Most people think when they’re struggling to resolve their past is to go to talk therapy or have an NLP session, but that might be the biggest mistake people make.

Consider this is a bit of an overview of how I do my award-winning, state-altering process. This will help calm yourself to take some peace and quiet for yourself.

“Why is it that you’re prepared to live with discontentment in the long term, then step towards the discomfort of addressing it, for a happier future”?

"How often do I stick to my guns?" Just this question can transform the way you think and help you find out how brave you are through your everyday activities.

How have we gotten ourselves into a society where we tear women down for wanting to be wealthy but at the same time complain about not having equality?

We ignore the subconscious patterns attempts for us to wake up and don’t even realise how much we’re NOT listening to our highest good.

In this blog, I’m going to explain the cause of this specific problem so that you can show up as yourself ready to SERVE rather than PROVING yourself,

You've got a client lined up, they'll get back to you and begin working with you… and boom, there they are on social media, celebrating their success with your competitor!

ith multiple catalytic healings, rather bizarrely she is thankful for Cancer bringing her next level of soul growth. She also released a dark entity that got inside her force field during chemo!

Deep Belief HackingTM expert Mell B, shared “I love facilitating transformation with dynamo leaders. I believe they have the influence for society to become more consciously aware”.

What makes a great leader? Compassion, decisiveness, having a great vision? Rather than focusing on specific personal talents or traits, the combination and timing of utilising these skills

They are at a stage where they've already had some success and that next level that ambition means a new level of growth, it means a new level of expansion.

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